After obtaining a doctorate in psychology from the University of California in the year one thousand nine hundred and sixty -seven, Dr. Wilaard F. Harley Jr worked as a marriage advisor; But he confessed that he failed miserably to save the marriages of those close to him and in the year one thousand nine hundred and seventy -three, discovered that he was not the only one in failure, almost every person in the profession of marital treatment also fails. He collected testimonies from some of the husbands who spoke with them and discovered common aspects of women and men's needs towards each other.