Wife and mistress, can they meet in one person? Many people of our time avoid marrying their fear of adhering to one person for life. Those who succeed in overcoming their fear of association will later complain of boredom in the sexual relationship, especially after having children. Esther Perel, the psychiatrist and family relations specialist, we talked, with thirty years of experience in marital and family problems, on how to return the enthusiasm and flame to the marital relationship again