Great love is not the love of first sight, the love of emotion, but rather it is the love of insight, the love of conscience and reason, and the greatness, glory and majesty of love between a man and a woman is due, at its core, to the lofty qualities that we attribute to our mothers, to social morals that society has taught us, and to family customs that we practiced in our childhood.
People are not equal in the ability to love, just as they are not equal in the ability to be happy. Because both - love and happiness - depend on the amount of conscience we have; That is, reasonableness, based on how much we loved our mothers, and based on the amount of sublime qualities our mothers had.